My dear cousin
You may recall that I had our important business meeting here in Northheim today, and I am sad to report, that it almost went sour. The reason? I apparently had failed to understand some important, local customs. Do not get me wrong; the business deal was never in any real jeopardy – they aren’t that easy to insult after all. It wasn’t, however, the best of starts either.
You see, they have this peculiar custom concerning visitors bringing small stumps of wax candles. I know – it seems crazy. Apparently, the tradition originates in the poor district of Northheim, known as ‘Lower Quarter’. During the dark winters, many find light sources scarce, and therefore bundle together in the larger homes, to be as many persons per light as possible. To avoid the ones with the biggest homes, having to bear the cost of shedding light alone, it grew into a custom to bring small stumps of candle when visiting, to contribute to the enlightenment.
Over the course of a few years the elite picked up on this custom and adopted it. From there, the craftsmen, traders and other sections of the middle-classes soon picked it up. They did, however, change it slightly. While it remains a custom to share only stumps of lights, and not wholly new candles, the quality of the candles varies greatly. While the poor continues to only pass forward tiny stumps of poor candles, the rich often pass on highly decorated stumps, and some have even expanded upon it further, to pass on stumps from candles, that burned down during special occasions, such as during a romantic dinner, or an important business meeting.
A few candlemakers, who specialize in decorative candles, have started to design the candles in such as way, so the last section of the candle works as a decoration, instead of looking simply as the last fraction of a larger whole. This remains, however, a fringe trend, and for most, this contrasts with the spirit of the original intention. The most common thing by far, even amongst the elite, still is to pass on small stumps of entirely normal candles.
Their customs don’t end there, however. While the guest offers candle-stumps to his or her host, the host in return presents his guests with his cupboard of vices. A ‘cupboard of vice’ is a small chest, box or piece of furniture, that contains a series of luxuries, which are then offered to the guests. The type of luxuries may vary greatly. For the nobles this can often be expensive cigars or fine wine, while for many soldiers, it’s a single bottle of schnapps and his collection of nude “art”. Even the poorest of citizens try to maintain a cupboard of vices. For them, it can often be things such as beef jerky. In their eyes, a small bite of spiced meat, is one of the greatest luxuries one can offer a guest.
This leads me back to my meeting with Master Hendricksen today. He presented to me his cupboard of vices, from which I accepted some fine tobacco for my pipe, but I hadn’t though of bringing him a candle-stump! I hadn’t really noticed this was a problem before I had to take my leave later that evening. Usually, Hendriksen places his left hand on my shoulder, while we greet, but this time, he gave me nothing more than a simple handshake! As I said; it isn’t disaster. But it is an example, of his view of me having worsened.
I’ll have to make amends; he will guest me the coming weekend, before which I’ll have to acquire a cupboard of vices myself. Hopefully, he will find himself impressed.
I will keep you updated.
Your cousin
Thaelin Colton